Why is There So Much Chasidic Divorces Recently

To me the answer is very simple, Chasidus cannot work together with the American culture, the American culture is a direct threat and clashes to the many core Principe's of the old fashioned chasidis

for an example. original Chasidus meant to take spirituality to the highest level possible, being as far away as possible from any materialism to an extreme

All physical needs such as food, enjoyment, Love, Intimacy were a mere small part of life to which not much attention was given to

the main purpose of the Chasidim was to be strongly connected to Hashem, regardless of the Chasids academic level in Torah Chasidus gave him an opportunity to enjoy the feeling of being highly spiritually connected to Hashem, The Chasid didn't want anything more then that

The woman of original Chasidm weren't any different, small attention was put on femininity as it was not important, Men didn't put much emphasis on the physical looks and qualities of their wives and vice versa, what was important is that she or he comes from a good house and she doesn't grow a tail or horns

Woman didn't expect anything from their men and men didn't have huge expectations from their wives, Chasidus was meant to live for a higher purpose, satisfaction in life only came from deep spirituality and not from physical indulgents

Times have changed, chasidis became westernized, Chasidishe Men and Woman have become very interested in Materialistic pleasures, they want the best from both worlds, A chasidish girl wants to experience everything the modern girl experiences in marriage, the excitement, the love, the whole nine yards just like in the movies, the same is the Bucher from the Yeshiva is well informed of how exciting marriage can be and both the boy and girl set to themselves unrealistic high standards of how great their marriage life is going to be, however Chasidim still do their dating just like 300 years ago with little change which is in direct contrast to the accomplishments the Boy or girl are trying to achieve in marriage from one another

Their actual dating starts only after the wedding, they soon realize deep ideological differences, differences in the things they enjoy, their hobbies are not alike Etc

Now in the real chasishe world 400 years ago that wouldn't have been a problem since those Chasidim were not interested much in earthly pleasures since their source of pleasure was from a higher spirituality, however most Chasidim of today lack that level of spirituality and look for the same source of pleasure the Modern, and Non Jewish population enjoys but .
in the same time they do hold on to the same customs from original Chasidus

In order to Enjoy an Americanized Marriage filled with love and romance you've got to join what all Modern and non Jewish people do. they set out on a long journey to find a perfect soul mate, someone who understands shares your desires, hobbies, interests in life Etc. unfortunately in most cases the Boy and Girl are matched by family types and external similarities.

I believe that combined with our Chasidishe values and lifestyle if we'd allow dating in chasidus we would enjoy a dramatically reduced number in the divorce rates.

Chasidus cannot work together with people who are giving in and enjoying materialistic Lust to the fullest

what we are going to witness in the next years to come will be just how much We Chasidim will suffer due to our Americanization.

Original Chasidus can only exist in small rural Farms of Europe and NOT in NYC.